Secrets of Taurus Man in August 2018

TAURUS MAN AUGUST 2018

 

Living with Mr Taurus

 

If you are in love with a Taurus Man, August will bring some relief if you have been at loggerheads about family related matters.  It could be that you have been involved in disagreements about your children or your respective children and how to manage domestic issues from time allocation to where the kids spend weekends i.e. with you and your guy or with your exes.   Some sense should now prevail and you may be able to resolve these matters or at least find clever ways to circumvent them.

Home life has not be very relaxing recently, in fact Taurus Man may have had to make many compromises and these have not sat easily with him. If you have recently moved in with Mr Taurus; he could have been rather irritable with the adjustments and you have to admit, even though you love him, he can be very set in his ways and when his little routines and rituals are disturbed to make way for you he gets a tad cranky. However, Mr Taurus is about to find that little part of him that does like to be flexible as he can sense that something new is brewing and it is rather interesting.

 

Talk Talk

 

Mr Taurus is very curious in August – if you are dating, he will interrogate you as he wants to know what makes you tick. In fact, if you appear to be somewhat complex and confused he will become aroused intellectually as if he needs to get to grips with some of your issues and work them out.  You may feel a little uncomfortable as you are put under the spotlight. Taurus Man can however smartly deflect questions aimed at the deep, dark private parts of his life with humour; there are some personal matters he does not want to be drawn on.

Taurus Man enjoys talking, in fact this month he may keep you up talking into the wee small hours as he is in a problem solving analytical frame of mind and there is this need he has to talk things though – he probably does not want feedback, he is thinking aloud and yet he needs you to be there paying attention.

 

Psychology, Honesty and Change.

 

The solar eclipse in August has a significant impact on family values and also a Taurean Man’s level of contentment and security. Taureans who find their partners do not offer some level of contentment or who do not contribute to their security (a key concern for Taurus) will find things reach a tipping point.  Existing relationships which undermine who Taurus Man is at heart and which no longer reaffirm his independence and core values are certainly in question.

The key question you have to be honest about, if you are in love with Taurus Man, is how does he want you to change and do you want to change? Taurus Man is undergoing psychological changes right now, triggered by the eclipse, and some of these may manifest in him making what may seem as out of character demands and your own patience and tolerance can be tested.  Taurus Man is always open to discussion however especially after the 19th of August when Mercury goes direct.

Taurus Man’s attitude to love is more sober and reflective this month with Taurus coming to terms with harsh realities and deeper psychological issues at play – it may be that these issues have come to light as you have both matured and become more savvy and/or just woken up or maybe the relationships is new and you are learning more about each other. Now, the question is, are the issues you see revealing themselves ones which you can deal with, are they worth dealing with, and do you want to deal with them?

Taurus Men are quite malleable right now – no matter what it looks like on the surface, he is open to your input and he is emotionally open to suggestions which can enhance your life as a couple and perhaps set some new precedents. By setting new precedents, I mean getting rid of relationships rules, like, “We don’t do that,” “that is not for us”, “we don’t do it that way,” etc.; do you still need these parameters, are the not holding you back?

In new and existing relationships you and Taurus Man must define yourselves as a couple and not be defined by anything or anyone else and so friends or family who seek to undermine the relationship or throw their penny’s worth in have to be given the cold shoulder.

 

Romance and Dating

 

Taurus Men are projecting a more mysterious persona, and they are attracted to people who seem to be in a journey. They are curious to know what you want from life and the more ideas and aspirations you have the more interested in you they become.

In dating, you and Taurus Man may be holding cocktail parties or entertaining at your home or at one of your respective homes. You may attend literary events or, if you have not yet met you may meet at a literary event, book launch or a recital. It is a month where Taurus is more involved with his family and so you may even be attending a wedding or milestone party with his family.

Taurus Man could be involved in prompting local tourism and if you are dating, one of your trips may be to a local museum or tourist spot where he tells you all the little secrets of his town’s past. Taurus Man may be more interested in history and culture right now and your dates may reflect that.

With the ruler of Virgo and thus Taurus Man’s 5th house retrograde until the 19th of August. Romantic affairs are subject to misunderstandings and miscommunications. He may get a time or date wrong or one of you could be caught in traffic or lose his cell phone; I know it is hard these days with so many communication avenues like WhatsApp, Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Snapchat etc. to have any excuse not to communicate, however Mercury retrograde is still cunning enough to engineer a communication glipse which can make you question whether you have been stood up. So, be patient and do not jump to the worst conclusion, give him at least a few minutes to make his excuses when he does get back in touch.

Taurus Man has a hearty sense of humour but there are times when he cracks one too far and it can grate on you, so perhaps overlook a little insensitivity it probably sounded good when he thought of it in his head even if it turned into a lead balloon soon after.

You best dates tend to be spontaneous affairs rather that heavily orchestrated ones and so best to meet up and let the evening take you by the scruff of the necks rather than trying to stick to a pre-arranged schedule or have expectations of anything highly specific.

Taurus Man can be a little suspicious in August, and he reads the worst into many situations, not just in connection with romance but in general; a little habit you must take control of.  Be honest and direct with him as if you are vague he will probably let his imagination run wild with some misinterpretations. Some of his mistrust is to do with insecurity issues which have roots deep in his subconscious rather than in reality.

Many relationships that start now will have a strong karmic bond – you may have met in a past life, and you may have extraordinarily acute ESP together.

 

Home Life

 

If you and Taurus Man have set up home together and you may well be doing that right now as there is much action in the realm of Taurus’ domestic life, your attention may be drawn to issues around your home from repairs to improvements to discussions with your landlord or committee about rights and responsibilities.  You may both move from a flat to a house and have more freedom in your home to do as you wish.

Taurus Man could be called to make decisions about their parents; he may have to assume the head of family role and take responsibility for some far reaching decisions.

As Mercury is retrograde until the 19th of August, any decision Taurus Man makes or anything he says before that time may not be set in stone and could be subject to change. As all signs are influenced by the vagaries of Mercury retrograde, it is good to avoid making promises, going on important trips and finalising any agreements during that phase.

After mercury goes direct on the 19th of August it will be ideal for any decisions you make in terms of home life; while it is good to have discussions and do research and planning before the 19th the final decision on any matter should be left until after that date.

There is a solar eclipse on the 11th of August and he effect can be a crystallisation of events relating to past relationships for Taurus Man. This eclipse can begin a powerful new phase of growth for him, almost a rites of passage time when he feels he can make some clean breaks with emotional ties or people from his past.

The eclipse also provides the impetus for any changes that are needed psychologically and gives Taurus courage to face up to some home truths – even though he may not admit it, as he is proud and admitting things to himself is often hard enough never mind saying it aloud and so do not go there; know when he is a little wounded and do not rub salt in it.

 

Money

 

Taurus Man is not averse to change right now, but he with do the risk evaluation in his head. He tends to be a little funny about money – he wants to pay and he may be a little tense about his misses chipping in or lending. Taurus Man tends to want that traditional role of breadwinner and he is uneasy when you are more financially secure or have that extra bit of cash spare. He may spend on credit or scrimp in private to make sure he can keep up a chivalrous mode of treating you and being the provider.  In some cases it can be quite defeating on a psychological level for a Taurus Man to be in an inferior financial position this month and you may want to avoid chatting about your raise or how you got a bonus. Remember Taurus are prone to material jealousy; no matter how they evolve they are always rooted in the material and money and financial achievement retains some significance for them no matter how spiritual or evolved they may seem.

 

 

Health

 

Small insights into his own foibles and motivations can mean big gains in Taurus Man’s personal power and after a period of doubt, an increase in his own security.  Look out for the period of doubt, which could result is him being a little needy and talking himself down or complaining – Taurus like a little self-pity in small doses, luckily it does not often last long, it is almost like a type of indulgence.

Taurus Man needs to give himself a shake down; he almost needs a wakeup call where a reality is thrust in his face and he starts to make adjustments.  You can help him by not criticising him directly, but by helpfully suggesting how others may criticize him or dismantle his arguments and your perspective on how he would prepare for that. You can almost act like his coach, which works a lot better than being blunt like and Arian or Sagittarians may be and telling him just what you think no holds barred.

Taurus Man understands himself a lot better this month, although this process happens over the month and you may be able to observe it if you know him well; if you have just met him he may confuse you and give out so many mixed messages you may feel the relationship is like an emotional lucky dip.

Taurus Man tends to put himself through the mill this month and it may be very intense being with him: that is why you need to have time with your family and your friends as you can get sucked into his issues and his moods where whatever he is going through takes over your life. Taurus Man can be a distraction this month and you need to have a free headspace where you can just re-centre yourself and not lose touch which who you are, what you need and what your focus in life should be. Taurus Man should be part of your life in August 2018 as it may not be that healthy for you if he is all of your life.

 

Sex Life

 

Good sex is about understanding yourselves better and recognising certain gut reactions to things which are either useful or not – it is a good time to analyse, understand and change these unhelpful and often self-destructive reflex emotional reactions.

Sex life can always be improved and yet you both cannot escape the influence your upbringing had on making some aspects of sex or intimacy difficult and you may never be able to fully eradicate or shut these influences out. It is vital now to accept any limitations and decide to work within them, rather than raging against them which may be taking too much energy and creating too much stress. Once stress sets in, confidence and the ability to get those improvements can go out the window.

As a couple you should have a wider definition of what good sex is – good sex can be the orgasm, something naughty or forbidden, something that makes you feel loved, something relaxing, something that feels like escapism etc. In August good sex has to be preceded by the sense of deep understanding; if Taurus Man feel you do not know him, do not care to know him deeply or are no that bothered about the deeper aspects of his emotional life he can be wooden in love. The more you show compassion the better sex life is.

Sex with Taurus this month also has to be about deep relaxation and so massages, foot massages, Indian Head massage and any relaxation technique even meditation, if you both enjoy that, before sex or as foreplay is very helpful.

Sex also needs a sense of adventure in August and so perhaps new locations, sex outdoors or a very unusual holiday or trip could get the juices flowing.

 

Waxing Moon

 

The moon waxes between the 11th and 26th making these the best times for new starts and enterprise. These dates apply to all star signs and so they represent a green light phase for new activities, although the dates 19th to 26th are even better as Mercury is direct as well.  So, in terms of your communications, any joint contractual arrangements you have, logistics, local travel or buying and selling etc. wait until after the 19th for Mercury to go direct. The waxing period as just stated is ideal for progressive and ground-breaking goals, and there can be success within mathematics, economics, or philosophy (i.e., social sciences) – which could be relevant if you and Taurus Man work in banking, economic analyses and research or academia. This is also an ideal period for collaboration with others on artistic (especially music and fine art) projects and humanitarian goals; and so you and Taurus Man may want to increase your involvement with or expand your networks as related to the music, theatre or art world.

 

 

 

 

 

 

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ALL ABOUT TAURUS

Symbolised by the Bull, Taurus has the capacity for acceptance, fixed determination and practicality and is noted for a strong sense of values and a love of beauty.  Taurus is motivated by feeling above all.  Taurus is a highly sensual sign and has a heightened response to and appreciation for beauty in all forms i.e. touch, sound, smell, taste and sight.

The Bull symbolises strength, tenacity, consistency and quite power.  When you see Bulls in a field they are always grazing or drinking together at the river; Taurus while not a party animal, is a social animal who enjoys company and togetherness.  Bulls are also rather docile and content unless aggravated, when they will unleash the full force of their wrath.  Taureans rarely seek conflict and are generally relaxed and easy going, but should you dare disturb the tranquillity and order of their lives, ‘Beware of the Bull’. 

 

Sexually Speaking

Taurus are often rather shy sexually at first or with a new lover.  Some of them are slow to arousal, but once aroused their desire is earthy and powerful.

In sexual encounters Taurus do not like to be rushed; it’s all about taking time and savouring the moment.  Taureans tend to like sex when they feel comfortable i.e. in familiar surroundings or where they feel safe

Taureans dislike sexual gimmicks, they like sex like they live their lives: down to earth.  If the lover can get past The Bull’s “quirks”, they’ll find that the wait is totally worth it.

 

In Career

Taureans have an amazing ability to focus and concentrate.  In Japan, a Taurus country, the cuisine is world renowned as superb, as chefs will specialise in a particular dish exclusively.

Most Taureans will tend to have well-defined long-term goals and the determination to achieve them. Bulls are unlikely to take on too many projects at once.   Taureans do not set out to do something if they think they can’t – they are not willing to gamble their reputation in that way.  Adaptability is not Taurus’ string point and so fast changing work environments or work places where there is a constant state of flux and disorganisation will not appeal to them.

Accounting, banking, the arts (music and acting), building, architecture, farming, catering and restuaranterring are careers that appeal to Taurus.

 

Relationships

Although slow to demonstrate their feelings, a Taureans affections are strong, deep and long lasting.  They make faithful friends and lovers and will sometimes cling to a relationship, reluctant to let go even when it is clear that it has failed.  Bulls hate being alone and won’t live the single life for long (even if this means taking in a room-mate).  Some Taureans are quite content to stay within the family home for many years, when they do finally move out, it is a wrench.  They appreciate tangible tokens of love in the form of gifts and will always reciprocate in kind. Bulls cannot stand rows and would rather let things be than initiate any form of friction.  Sometimes Taureans end up putting up with way too much.  Very steadfast and a reliable partner, Bulls are also very sensual but inclined to be possessive and a little jealous.

Taureans make friends easily due to their relaxed, non-judgmental attitude.  They are very friendly and sociable and will have no shortage of social engagements.  However, Bulls are home birds really and enjoy to be with their family rather than raving it up every night.  Having a very strong ego, a Taurus doesn’t have to prove his popularity by going out with the in crowd each night – he’ll stay at home and let his friends come and get him, he is very sure of himself.

Something about their manner indicates to others that the Bull will make a satisfying lover and partner.  Taurus crave a certain measure of constancy and dependability in relationships and are drawn to the other fixed signs i.e. Scorpio, Aquarius and Leo because of this, even if these do not represent easy relationships.

 

Health

 

Vulnerable parts of the body are the neck, throat, shoulders and upper torso. Sore throats, stiff necks, tonsillitis, pneumonia, croup, lymphatic stasis of the neck and head, asthma, bronchitis, Graves’ disease, laryngitis, hyperthyroidism, metabolic dysfunction (leading to obesity) and earache are common Taurean ailments.

The average Bull has superb health and it takes a lot to put him on his back, however recuperation can be slow due to a stubborn refusal to obey the doctor and a natural distrust of optimism which doesn’t encourage speedy recuperation

Taureans are generally work-a-holics who try to achieve a high standard in everything which they attempt, never quitting and often pushing themselves to the point of physical exhaustion. The Bull must pace him/herself and learn where the mental or physical OFF switch is. Breaks, fresh air and moderate exercise is vital.

 

TAURUS HOROSCOPE 2014

 

You intuition is enhanced this year and should not be ignored – Taureans are very perceptive and quite psychic although that is not discussed very often as you are such a down to earth sign.  Bearing in mind what I said about you mentally be inclined towards practicality and factual analysis, there is no denying that you are getting feelings: gut feeling, hunches and instincts about things and people and you should not ignore these.

In 2014 you are working hard toward the practical things, but at the same time your heart is yearning for something more meaningful and purposeful and later on in the year events will allow you to bring that meaning into your life.  Reading self-improvement or spiritual books combined with a need to get away from it all are some indicators of that need to connect with another side of yourself.  Writing or being creative with music or art could be the escape and the avenue to release both artistic talents and emotions that you are looking for. 

Taureans often mask emotions that are hard to deal with via over-work, over eating or obsessive exercising – later this year you may attract people into your life who will help you to confront these emotions instead of burying them away. 

Self-honesty and a pull towards reflection, meditation and also prayer are fundamental to your well-being and you will find yourself exploring these and other similar modes of spiritual understanding. 

Artistic pursuits by their nature create a tornado of emotion which can whisk up feelings and bring deeply seated issues to the surface – thus Taureans who work in the arts or creative enterprises tend to be closer to their emotions and so this can be a cathartic time when these emotions are better understood.

Taureans are finally understanding things that they never quite got to grips with before – but the question is: What can you do with this understanding?

LISA LAZULI – Former BBC WM Astrologer and author of:

TAURUS – Your Day, Your Decan, Your Sign.

HOROSCOPE 2014 – Astrology and numerology Horoscopes.

How do Taurus get on with Fellow Taureans Sexually and in Love

TAURUS with TAURUS

 

While on one hand this can be a blissful, romantic and happy union, it could also be a downward spiral of depression, hopelessness and passive aggression.

Similarities in terms of the need for stability, comfort, continuity and peace can make this a very harmonious affair.  However things can get dull and there is little motivation to inject some adventure into the relationship.  Stuck in your old ways, you may plod on in a “doing Ok, but not very well,” state of suspension in time.

As you have similar values and look at the world in quite the same way making decisions and bringing up the children will be filled with agreement.   Deciding where to holiday, where to live and how to spend free time will also be a source of agreement as you are both laid back and enjoy similar activities. 

You are both earthy, sensual lovers who like romance and enjoy foreplay: you like to revel in the pleasure of feel, touch, smell and closeness and being pleasers by nature you will want to pleasure the other.  Sexually Taurus can be very comfortable together.  What’s more Taurus are loyal and committed and when in a solid relationship Taurus gives so much more in the sexual department; so Taurus with Taurus should mean plenty of sex.  Sex for Taurus must go along with affection; one cannot be fulfilling without the other and with a fellow Taurean affection, cuddles and an earthy wit will go a long way to make sex successful.

When Taureans are not shown affection they get very insecure about their bodies – this should not happen in a Taurus Taurus relationship.

Moneywise you are both sensible and both of you like to spend on objects of beauty to make the home pleasant or for the female to have nice jewellery and clothes.  Taureans like their lover to look good – they enjoy things that are pleasing on the eye.

Since you both like socialising, weekends should be packed full of events and engagements to go to, however sometimes 2 Taurus together tend to cocoon themselves and become almost reclusive.

The positive traits and easy going nature of two Taureans together can make you both more passive as a pair and more likely to get into a rut when routine kills the romance or where neither of you are able to provide the impetus to get yourselves out of a rut.

Jealous and possessive behaviour can become par for the course with no restraining rationale to temper the feelings which can run high.  You are both unwilling to back off and give each other time and space which can mean disagreements drag on.  Added to this the stubbornness of two Taureans can make compromises very difficult and the one who eventually backs down may resent it.

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